Nearly one half of women who are about to experience a threat to
their lives at the hands of a boyfriend or husband may not realize
they are in danger, according to new research. The findings are the
result of a nationwide study conducted by researchers at the Oregon
Health and Science University in Portland in an attempt to curtail
domestic abuse.
According to the report, a look back at warning signs for 30
women who survived an attempted homicide by an intimate partner
revealed that 14 did not know their lives were at risk and said
they were “completely surprised” by the attack. Also notable is the
fact that most attacks occurred around the time women tried to end
the relationship. And while nearly all women had experienced
previous episodes of abuse and violence from their partners, not
all instances had been severe.
Lead author of the study, Dr. Christina Nicolaidis of OHSU, said
that these findings suggest that, in some cases, the warning signs
that a woman’s life is in danger may be difficult to read.
“If I had talked to some of these women before the attack, I
would have counseled them about the domestic violence, but I would
not have necessarily felt that their lives were in danger,”
Nicolaidis said. “Now I am more careful to warn any woman who has
experienced intimate partner violence about the risk to her life,
especially around the time that the relationship is ending.”
According to the Madison Police Department, women who plan on
leaving an abusive or troubling relationship should consider safety
planning their top concern. The department’s website states: “If
you are choosing to take legal action, please remember to take
careful steps to keep yourself and your children safe. A legal
protective order is helpful, but it is not always enough to keep
you safe.”
The MPD also stated that women should always tell at least one
other person of any abuse or unhealthy behavior prior to leaving,
as well as keep a journal of any or all incidents of abuse
including time, dates, events and threats made, if possible.
In the OHSU study, Nicolaidis and her colleagues noted that
homicide is the leading cause of death among African-American women
between the ages of 15 and 34, and up to half of all women who are
murdered are killed by an intimate partner.
The study was conducted through interviews of 30 women between
the ages of 17 and 54 who had survived an attempted homicide by
their current or former boyfriends or husbands.
All but two of the women had experienced episodes of violence or
controlling behavior, such as stalking or preventing them from
going anywhere alone, from the man who tried to kill them.
And while 22 of the homicide attempts occurred while the women
were trying to end their relationships, most women said they were
breaking up for reasons other than violence.
According to Josh Cutler, a senior at the University of
Wisconsin and former women’s self-defense instructor, the main
thing to keep in mind when under attack is to remain calm.
“If you can retain your composure, then you’re at an advantage,”
he said. “What we try to teach in self-defense classes is that most
women are going to be overpowered by their attacker, so they need
to concentrate on creating space, time and an escape path.”
Common areas of target include the eyes, throat and groin of an
attacker, Cutler said, and as a second-best option, go after the
fingers and wrists because they are easily accessible.
According to Nicolaidis, classic risk factors for an attempted
homicide by an intimate partner include escalating episodes or
severity of violence, threats with or use of weapons, alcohol or
drug use, and violence toward children. While every woman included
in the report experienced at least one of these standard signs,
they were clearly not all “classic” cases, she added.
Local resources for women at risk include Dane County
Domestic Abuse Intervention Services, whose Crisis Line can be
reached at 251-4445; Briarpatch Counseling Center’s crisis line,
251-1126; and the Dane County District Attorney’s Office Domestic
Violence Unit, 284-6880.