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From the Desk of the Editor: A qualified but sincere apology
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Also by Jason Smathers:
- Earth to Dems: If in doubt, just run (November 11, 2009)
- From the Desk of the Editor: A qualified but sincere apology (October 29, 2009)
- Edgewater mess calls for diplomacy (October 21, 2009)
- Are you pro-legalization? Tell potheads to shut up (October 6, 2009)
In Wednesday’s issue of The Badger Herald, we printed an anti-shout-out that was distasteful and inappropriate. It read as follows: “ASO to the girl who not only passed out while we were fooling around, but then woke up and asked, ‘is it gonna hurt?’ then proceeded to pass out again. I’m still wondering, does that count as consent?”
I take full responsibility for the incident, but want to explain how this occurred.
The shout-outs are put together by our Advertising Department — compiled from the online submissions and printed in our classified ads section. As such, they are proofed by an advertising manager and rarely looked over by editorial. We have discussed this issue with the manager responsible, and I assure readers that she has given a heartfelt apology.
However, this is the fault of both the managing editor and myself for not checking the shout-outs for this sort of comment, as it would have been immediately removed.
I take these issues very seriously and want to make sure we rectify mistakes such as these. For that reason, I apologize to those who felt we were making light of rape. As someone who has had multiple friends victimized by sexual assault, it is not something I would joke about. It was a comment one person printed hastily without realizing its full implications. From now on, the managing editor or I will look over every shout-out to make sure the line is drawn between edgy and harmful comments.
That said, I am disappointed in the few people who have sought to inflate the issue from an unfortunate mistake into an assault on decency based on certain assumptions.
Starting Wednesday afternoon, I received a slew of e-mails from concerned students decrying the shout-out. When I saw that many of them were sent at the same time and included, in some cases, the exact same language and citations, I realized this was a concerted and organized effort to shame us.
It wasn’t until I arrived in Austin, Tex., Thursday morning after a daylong car ride and checked my e-mail that I saw how far the issue had progressed. A personal friend called to let me know the Medical Student Association had demanded a retraction and would enlist the help of that school’s dean if necessary. Legal action, ridiculously, was also mentioned.
While we made a mistake by allowing the shout-out to go to print, the people who passed around the comment with the subject line “The Badger Herald endorses rape” attacked this paper based on an assumption — that we’re heartless, crass and ignorant men who enjoy controversy for the sake of controversy.
Dialogue cannot occur on issues such as this if the first reaction is to lob moral judgments at this paper’s staff.
I can only hope that the next time we print something objectionable or controversial that readers hear the explanation before confusing a mistake with malice.
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IP hash: b5295fa1
Well Jason, at least you had the decency to apologize for it, but it would have been better if the BH (Butt Heads) chose not to print the damn thing in the first place.
IP hash: 6460e9a6
Thank you.
IP hash: d22a5f60
I don’t really understand… It’s a joke, and half of the SOs are known to be made up anyway. There is such a thing as too PC.
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Transparently passing the blame… sure there’s a thing as too PC, but this shit isn’t funny. Demote the Advertising Manager who printed it, man up, and quit making excuses! You allow such an offensive “joke” to be printed, you’re damn right you’re going to hear about it!
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Thank you, Jason, for taking the time to write this much-needed piece. I am glad to see the shoutout correctly recognized in print as “distasteful and inappropriate.” I am also confident that had you or your managing editor seen the shoutout prior to print, it would have been removed, and I trust that the standards for the shoutouts will be higher in the future.
Nonetheless, I do not accept the innocent “mistake” characterization, as literally hundreds of online submissions are available each week, and the printed items are consciously chosen by your advertising staff. Though your advertising editor likely did not choose it maliciously, her failure (and the failure of everyone else who saw it priot to print) to recognize the problematic attitudes espoused in it still reflects an acceptance of rape culture on this campus.
Related, this is one of the key places where this apology falls short; I do not see where it explains why it was wrong to print this shoutout. Again, all of the adjectives you have used are correct. However, immediately after you quote the shoutout, you miss an opportunity to open the dialogue you profess to be so interested in creating. Why did we find this shoutout so offensive? Clearly and unequivocally, it must be stated that sex without consent is called rape. An individual who passes out (presumably from alcohol intoxication) while fooling around is not capable of giving consent. I think the person who posted this shoutout likely knows both of these things, and thus knows damn well the scenario described does not “count” as consent. Yet because of the campus climate that surrounds alcohol and sex—i.e. the widespread but incorrect and degrading assumption that if she was drunk, she probably wanted it anyway—this individual saw an opportunity to use sexual assault as a source of humor and mockery. Maliciously or not, printing the shoutout validated those attitudes.
And on a final, admittedly snarkier note: Buck up, buttercup. I know you don’t personally endorse or condone rape. But you’re the editor-in-chief of the Badger Herald, and the Badger Herald printed what may only be described as an outrageously outrageous statement. I’m glad you got backlash for it, and I’m glad you got a lot of it. It’s gratifying to see this deserved apology in print. But the BH also deserved every one of the emails it got.
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As editor in chief, maybe you need to clean house with how often the Badger Herald editors run trash. Hit pieces on faculty, hit pieces on business owners, encouraging illegal activity, and extremely offensive remarks. This time it was rape; the last @&^!storm was about the “you !@^! like a parapalegic” comment in the sex column.
This is clearly a people problem, and some of these 19-year-old “journalists” need to go.
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Clearly a problem? Maybe you should lighten up, homie.
Anyone who takes a sex column too seriously needs to stop frantically masturbating during shampoo commercials.
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It’s not about being a sex column. It was a pretty offensive line: “you fuck like a paraplegic and I hate it.” The best example I have heard as to why it is wrong: “You fuck like a [insert minority group here] and I hate it.” I’m sure that minority group would find it funny, right? When it is directed against a group of people with an offensive tone, it doesn’t really matter what article it appears in. I’m all for getting rid of all the PC bullshit that really isn’t a big deal, but for a lot of people that phrase came off like reading a racial slur, and it really did cross the line.
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So because it is in the “sex column” it would be okay to run other forms of slurs as things “not to say during sex?” I can see that going over spectacularly well if it involved a crack on sexual orientation or perceived racial characteristics or behavior. Although it seems disability insults are apparently the only ones that people think they can even jest about anymore…
Even the Badger Herald admitted that not deleting disparaging remarks from the sex column was completely unacceptable. They “apologized” for that too.
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Nah, misogyny is a-ok too. As evidenced by the publication of the shoutout in the first place.
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Mr. Smathers, You and your publication deserved to be shamed by this, and I’m glad an “organized and concerted effort” was launched to do so. I appreciate your apology, but it is undercut by your obvious attempt to suggest that the real blame for the larger incident rests with those who criticized the publication of this shout-out.
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Thank you for saying what we’re all thinking!
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If you want to retain the integrity of your newspaper, there needs to be a high standard of consistency and accountability. If previous editors made mistakes, don’t make those same mistakes. Take responsibility for your actions and the actions of your staff, and realize that being in a leadership role requires doing all of the above with poise. Don’t make excuses.
IP hash: 1d8a7546
All you needed to do to rectify the situation was to apologize, the excuses you’ve made are laughable.
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“attacked this paper based on an assumption”
Wrong ‘em, boyo. They criticized the ACTIONS of your paper, which was to print something offensive. It’s your job to prevent that from happening, and you didn’t. You promise that you will from now forward, and if that’s true then this whole thing will just die down, won’t it?
P.S. “It’s not really my fault but they say I have to take the blame” kind of apologies aren’t worth much, imho.
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The Herald receives hundreds of shout outs each week, and we’re honestly supposed to believe that this happened on accident? Do you pick the shout outs to be published out of a hat or something? I’m struggling with the idea that someone intelligent enough to attend this school isn’t intelligent enough to recognize the implications of this “joke”. So you’ve either employed a complete idiot, or, more realistically, your claim that the paper in no way enjoys controversy for the sake of controversy is less than truthful.
IP hash: 966f670f
Do you have an alibi for your multiple friends’ sexual assaults?
IP hash: c98d11e4
Not cool, especially in a context specifically about problematic “jokes.”
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Agreed - not cool. This is completely inappropriate.
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I’d like an apology for your apology.
You are the editor-IN-CHEIF. No matter what mistakes happen below you, it is YOUR job to correct them. The fact that you are trying to avoid the responsibility and make excuses for a comment that made light, whether or not intended to do so, of thousands of students’ personal nightmares is disgusting.
How dare you accuse the student body of merely trying to go after the Badger Herald! Just because countless students stood up to you by sending the same message doesn’t mean that each one wasn’t sent from a significantly offended base.
And imagine what that girl felt. She was raped. At this very moment that girl is going through the darkest period she’ll probably ever have to face. And here you are saying you’ll apologize (I’m paraphrasing here) because it’s your job to do so, but not actually because you think this situation is a big deal.
Your cowardliness is astounding, and it shows you have no business being in charge of a team and speaking out for a publication as a whole. When you and your paper can actually take FULL responsibility for the material you publish, that’s when I’ll start taking the Badger Herald seriously.
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Anonymous commenter calls Editor-In-Chief coward.
Awesome.
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To be fair, I think (hope) that the ASO was just some tasteless guy joke and not an actual event.
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YOU SHOULD LEARN HOW TO SPELE
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I’m not sure how you construed “I take full responsibility” as him trying to avoid responsibility.
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So he says, “do you love me?” And she says “no, but that’s a real nice SKI MASK you have on!”
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I wholeheartedly agree with what Erica wrote above. While this apology is much appreciated, it is also wrought with excuses and does not address the underlying issue. A full apology takes into account WHY what happened was wrong/bad and attempts to atone for that, not just the process of how the wrong/bad thing happened. I would hope the BH would take this opportunity to educate students and encourage a dialogue about this very real issue. While I would not go as far as to say the BH “endorses rape” or that anyone involved in the printing of this shoutout had malicious intent, I do feel it is justified to say that it supports or reinforces a rape culture. This apology was a chance to refute that image and decry those beliefs. So although I am glad to see a lage apology in print, it falls flat on that front.
Also, as someone that complained (twice), I think the solution to the slew of emails is simply acknowledgement of people’s complaints. I know I was frustrated when I heard nothing, it felt like the issue was being ignored and my complaint about it was unimportant. I feel like even a form letter apology would have helped calm or slow the onslaught of emails (just BCC everyone for confidentiality and send one mass email). I mean, how hard would it have been to say “We are terribly sorry for the offense nature of this shoutout. It was not our intention and an oversight on our part, and we are working to rectify the situation” ?
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Just pathetic. Two weeks in a row of horrible, pathetic journalistic ethics by the Herald. First the Nitty Boycott, and now this. What a joke.
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Don’t forget the incoherent, partisan rant against a respected alum, faculty member and future federal judge.
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This was a poor attempt at an apology. However, it was one that took the form of “I’m sorry, but…”. That hardly counts. Instead of making excuses for why this ASO got published in the first place, you should have published something to tell students you understand the repercussions of publishing something of this nature. I felt like you were trying to justify your actions more than you were trying to apologize. And the response you got from organizations was NOT exaggerated by any means; in fact, I wish more people bombarded you with e-mails. This was not an organized and concerted effort to shame you—you are completely missing the point. The emails were only meant to call your attention to this issue to ensure that this type of mistake does not happen again. All in all, I’m glad you made the effort to apologize for this, but next time, try to defend yourself a little less and realize that saying “I take full responsibility for the incident” while naming your article ” A Qualified but Sincere Apology” simply does not cut it.
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Bring back Schalmo!
IP hash: 98005901
you have their IP address right? why not forward it and the shout out to the police? This shout out is better printed than ignored. You can learn from another’s misfortune and not get plastered this weekend.
IP hash: b02d2c31
becaue it was an ASO, the guys hands are clean
If it were an SO, then the cops could use the IP address to find out where the guy lives and arrest his ass
IP hash: 442657d7
This is absolutely the most idiotic thing I have ever heard.
Because I didn’t like raping her, my hands are clean!
Fuck you.
IP hash: 98005901
you have their IP address right? why not forward it and the shout out to the police? This shout out is better printed than ignored. You can learn from another’s misfortune and not get plastered this weekend.
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Better still, you can REFRAIN FROM RAPING PEOPLE WHILE THEY ARE INTOXICATED.
I’m sure that’s what you meant, though.
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Mr. Smathers -
A “qualified” apology is not a real apology. This mostly unapologetic article is inappropriate and foolish. Next time, offer a sincere apology and lose the self-righteous, defensive tone of this piece.
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I appreciate the apology, and I really do not think the badger herald endorses rape. That said, the shout out was horrible but I think it is unfair to question the integrity of all staff based on one misplaced, distasteful shout out. As I see it, you made a mistake and you stood up and tried your best correcting it.
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Every morning I get up and look in the mirror and I thank God I’m not Jason Smathers.
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LOL!
Jesus Christ people lighten the fuck up. It’s a SHOUT OUT. All SOs are fake, pathetic attempts at students trying to be humorous. Let’s all cry a little more. Or, instead of blasting a newspaper’s STUDENT SENT shout outs, why don’t you all get off your large sconnie asses and do something about the real issue here.
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Let’s grant the shoutout is fake.
The fact that someone sent it in as an attempt to be humorous is part of “the real issue.”
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Giving your BH readers a qualified apology is, in my opinion, unacceptable. You absolutely cannot take full responsibility for your actions and, at the same time, fault the opposition for their reaction. Unfortunately, you are minimizing your organization’s culpability in choosing to print this shoutout while trying to redirect blame onto those who are quite rightly outraged.
Shoutouts are selected for print based upon their amusing qualities from a large selection of online submissions. The correct questions to be asking right now are: “Why did someone on our staff find this shoutout amusing and choose to let it remain on our website, let alone select it for publication?” and “What misconceptions regarding intoxication and sexual assault have we bolstered by publishing this shoutout?” and NOT “Why are we getting so much heat for this?” It would be far more disturbing if this shoutout went unnoticed by the public.
If you are truly upset with a “concerted and organized effort” to shame your organization, perhaps you should reconsider your organization’s attempts to undermine the Nitty Gritty.
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“You absolutely cannot take full responsibility for your actions and, at the same time, fault the opposition for their reaction.”
Why not? To take responsibility means to take the sort of actions that are appropriate given the nature of the error. This is what the Badger Herald has done. Why is this incompatible with faulting the opposition for reacting in a way that was also inappropriate?
Those who do not agree with the Badger’s decision to run the shout-out should voice their opposition, but certainly their reactions are open to critique as well. To accuse the Badger of endorsing rape, for example is an injustice. Likewise, attempting to have the Dean demand the removal of the shout-out is inappropriate.
If you’re concerned about “misconceptions regarding intoxication and sexual assault,” then write an article about it - educate people. That’s the best way to clear up misconceptions.
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Bullshit. “I take full responsibility for the incident…BUT I’m going to spend the rest of my ‘apology’ explaining why I’m not actually responsible.” Hollow at best.
And that the BH had a bunch of people angry at them is “an injustice” or “inappropriate”? Give me a fucking break.
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This completely misrepresents what Jason actually wrote.
He never said the BH was not responsible, nor did he say, nor imply, that it was inappropriate for people to be angry at the BH.
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“Why not? To take responsibility means to take the sort of actions that are appropriate given the nature of the error. This is what the Badger Herald has done. Why is this incompatible with faulting the opposition for reacting in a way that was also inappropriate?”
You’re correct that the two are not necessarily incompatible. The difference in opinion between you, Anonymous, and me is that I believe that those of us reacting to the BH’s actions are not acting inappropriately. Deflecting the blame upon us is a cop-out.
“If you’re concerned about ‘misconceptions regarding intoxication and sexual assault,’ then write an article about it - educate people. That’s the best way to clear up misconceptions.”
I completely agree that this would be a very intelligent way for the BH to respond to the massive oversight and insensitivity of publishing such a shoutout, and I would love it if the BH did this.
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“The difference in opinion between you, Anonymous, and me is that I believe that those of us reacting to the BH’s actions are not acting inappropriately. Deflecting the blame upon us is a cop-out.”
But you acknowledge that there’s a difference in opinion here. If so - if the BH believes that you are, in fact, acting inappropriately - then they are not “deflecting the blame,” they are placing blame where blame belongs. If you disagree about where blame belongs, then explain WHY the reactions cited by the BH are appropriate.
“I completely agree that [writing an article] would be a very intelligent way for the BH to respond to the massive oversight and insensitivity of publishing such a shoutout, and I would love it if the BH did this.”
Again, you are trying to shift responsibility for YOUR views on the BH. YOU are the one who is concerned about “misrepresentations regarding intoxication and sexual assault,” therefore it is YOU that should voice YOUR opinions. Maybe the BH doesn’t agree.
Sounds like your concern is not really with correcting “misrepresentations,” (something you could do yourself) but with getting the BH to atone for their sins - sins that you seem to take for granted, rather than argue for.
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Looks like you found your caps lock key. Sorry, Anon, but I’m done feeding anonymous, likely BH-affiliated trolls for this week. Give me a break.
IP hash: b02d2c31
would you rather he/she use a fake name like you did?
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Julia MacCallum is a real student, I looked her up on UW people search.
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And also a good friend of mine. Much like Lia Stratton.
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Jason Smathers, this is not an apology, but an excuse. Your association with the Herald gives it a bad name, and we all question your qualifications in the paper and your presence in Vilas. Get off your high horse, and start doing your job.
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Seconded. I find it hard to believe that you come from the same journalistic stock as the numerous Pulitzer Prize winners we have as alumni. Clearly a good education doesn’t make up for a lack of integrity, commitment, and responsibility to one’s profession. Do your job, Mr. Smathers, and stop insinuating that people calling you on your inadequacy as a supervisor are somehow blowing this oversight out of proportion.
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Way too much of an overreaction.
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Way too much indifference.
IP hash: e3b1f77c
Cry more. Should a public television network that hosts a show that pokes fun at rape (FX - It’s Always Sunny) be forced to issue an apology? Stop crying.
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Know what I think is a good joke? All these “overreaction” commenters doing so anonymously.
Come on, you believe what you’re saying, don’t you? Put your name on it.
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Dear Mr. Smathers,
I appreciate the apology; however, is a ‘qualified apology’ truly genuine? I simply ask for accountability, especially within a newspaper that reaches a student population. Perhaps the Badger Herald can cover an article which addresses the rape culture that is perpetuated on college campuses through such ‘slip ups’ like this. Take responsibility and represent the Badger Herald and UW-Madison population in a respectful manner.