Opinion: Column

‘Anonymous’ says this piece blows

Computers have revolutionized the way people do just about everything: share information, date, shop, masturbate — even the way we insult and make threats to people. Today, threatening and insulting people through e-mails, texts, social networks and online forums — also known as “cyberbullying” — has become so common that some outsiders are being forced to take notice.

It’s a nationwide problem that has made its presence known here in Madison. Luis Yudice, the safety coordinator for the Madison Metropolitan School District, commented in The Capital Times that, at the middle school level, it was not uncommon for students, especially 12- to 13-year-old girls, to spread malicious rumors about other students through digital media. The issue has even given rise to a website, Stopcyberbullying.org, which is committed to protecting kids from the dangers of cyberbullying.

Parry Aftab, the administrator of Stopcyberbullying.org and the founder and executive director of WiredSafety, a nonprofit organization determined to prevent cyberbullying, said cyberbullying occurs among children, preteens and teenagers. In my experience, this problem transcends all age groups.

To witness the extent of cyberbullying at the college level first hand, one won’t have to look any further than the comments posted about this very article online at Badgerherald.com. I have only been on The Badger Herald writing staff for six weeks but I have already gained a reputation that makes my mother embarrassed to be seen with me around campus. Here are some past favorites, all of them poetry:

“You bring shame to the University of Wisconsin, a center of activism and political thought. You can’t sift and winnow from your couch, asshole. People like you make me so angry. You are the reason the rest of the world thinks of Americans as stupid, entitled, and self-centered. Go ahead and waste your life away, I hope you’re proud of what you accomplish. Shame on you for this article.” — Anonymous

“You sound like a true douche.” — Anonymous

“I hope you burn in hell!” — Grandma Carter

“Embrace your mediocrity and enjoy your meaningless life.” — Anonymous

Wow. Priceless.

These are examples of cyberbullying. And, as is common with cyberbullying, these insults and threats were made by faceless perpetrators. In The Capital Times, Yudice stated, “For some bullies, it’s much easier to write something or make a comment when you don’t have to face the victim.” You don’t say?

I was always taught the best way to rid yourself of a bully, cyber or otherwise, is to fight back. So, allow me to retort:

This eagerness to contribute your opinion or your sense of righteousness to the world is understandable, but when you grossly misinterpret, misspeak or wrongfully accuse someone, you just come off sounding like an idiot. I urge those of you that enjoy the forums provided on The Badger Herald’s website to read beyond the title and first two sentences before making a comment. I urge all organizations willing to assault someone in the name of equality to research who it is you are targeting before you set out to do so. The next time you feel the impulse to speak out, take a breath, collect your thoughts, and rethink the situation to be sure you understand what the hell it is you’re talking about.

For all others, be aware. In the future, you too may find yourself to be the victim of cyberbullying, if you haven’t been already. It could manifest itself as a threatening text sent from an anonymous person, an e-mail, a widespread rumor initiated with the use of digital media, moronic insults posted on an online forum or as an old image posted online of yourself in Tijuana during spring break of 2007 doing something with a pineapple and a donkey that you were promised would never be shown to anyone.

We are all susceptible to it, regardless of age. The perpetrators may never be found but that doesn’t mean you should take it lying down. If confronted, you should stand up for yourself, for you are the victim of a cowardly act.

David Carter (drcarter@wisc.edu) is a senior majoring in forestry.

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you suck -David Carter

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to 12:50 am: go fuck yourself

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Man, I’m glad someone came out and said it. Thanks, bud.

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What makes cyberbullying especially bad is when the moderator, if there is one, decides to boot the victim when the victim stands up to the bully. Madison.com is run that way. Most of the cyberbullies on madison.com’s forums are actually employees of madison.com. It’s always the same folks who post on their boards. Even the posters on this board are a case in point. So much for civility.

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Don’t cry, man.

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whineeeee whine whine -C. Sanders

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This so-called cyberbullying is just a symptom of a larger issue: the widespread disdain for ideas in favor of emotionalism. We can see this, not only on college campuses, but throughout the culture.

Look at how President Obama treats ideas that he doesn’t agree with. Rather than address the arguments head on, he attempts to smear the other side as “bickering” and spreading of “disinformation.” Commentators openly smear opponents of Omama’s policies racist rather than deal with their arguments.

The tea party protests are smeared as racists and a well-funded “astroturf” movement instead of addressing the ideas this group is promoting.

Global warming advocates smear any opposition as “deniers” and refuse to even acknowledge the arguments against global warming theories.

This continuous stream of ad hominems would be diminished greatly if people would start taking ideas seriously.

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this should be the definition for ironic

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Hey David, can you please write on an actual issue next week? If you can’t, please stop wasting print space.

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Dave, next week write a piece on dealing with assholes, like the ones bashing you here. Every dog has his day.

Heat… kitchen…

/nuf said

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The author alleges “threats”, then offers no evidence to support the allegation. That gratuitous slander of your readers is “cyberbullying.”

But you know what’s really cowardly… plagiarizing your peers. http://badgerherald.com/oped/2006/10/24/onlinefeedbacklack.php

/physician, heal thyself

hmmm… this site appears to screen anonymous comments, so let’s try posting under a nom de guerre.

The author here alleges “threats”… then doesn’t offer a shred of evidence to support that odious slander of BH readers.

But you know what’s really “cowardly”? Plagiarizing your peer’s work in order to meet a deadline. http://badgerherald.com/oped/2006/10/24/onlinefeedbacklack.php

/shame, shame, shame

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there was this other portion related to a threat that I thought was mistakenly directed at me. The BH editors found out last minute that it actually wasn’t related to me so that portion was deleted. Unfortunately, some of the residual sentences weren’t deleted with it. And this link won’t open for me. Email the article to me.

Place your hamfists on your mouse and click on the hyperlink ‘nom de guerre’ for the plagiarized ideas about which you feign ignorance.

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damn dude, you are serious

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“I was always taught the best way to rid yourself of a bully, cyber or otherwise, is to fight back.” For a face-to-face bully, this might work. On the internet, it’s a totally different game because the objectives have changed. Traditional bullies seek power and control through either brute force or, as mentioned in the column above for female bullying, by indirect shredding intended to tear you down.

The most common cyberbullying, such as the trolling that the column focuses on, has the very different goal of trying to piss people off for amusement. These people thrive on attention and especially angry attention, and move on when they don’t get it. In a properly moderated setting, these people disappear quickly and with little fanfare. (One thing that continually puzzles me about BH board: all comments are approved—why would “you sound like a true douche” be approved for posting?)

In the meantime, follow the internet adage: “Please do not feed the troll.”

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This piece blows.

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dave- fuck these naysayers, theys a bunch of dickwads

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tl;dr

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when you rassle with the devil you gonna get wet with fire

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for the fags that dont like THEE dave carters work. i say to you “it sucks to suck.” dave, maybe a helpfull article on how to get ladies for the fags on here might be your next piece. the kind of people that hate daves work, are the same people that leave their number on the bathroom stalls looking to makeout with the same sex. game set and match you clowns.

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How old are you, 13? Come back again when your balls drop.

Oh, and as if it hasn’t been said already…

this piece blows.

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